People have different views and opinions on many topics. When an issue becomes so divisive in society that a couple of 13 years having different views on it can destroy their relationship, you know political polarisation has gone too far. I’m really hoping women who vote conservative or are in a relationship with someone who votes conservative stop being doormats for once. Please run. He wasn’t joking, or being hyperbolic for emphasis. On some level he believes violence against women is appropriate if they choose to abort. He may never get up the Sue bird watch the work classic Seattle storm sport shirt besides I will buy this courage to kill you. But he will absolutely harm you in a myriad of ways. He fundamentally doesn’t view you as a complete and whole person, equal to him in any way. You’ve got a sunk cost view of things. Reach out to your irl friends, let them know what he said, and get help and support to leave him. 13 years is nothing compared to the rest of your life.