Idk man, I couldn’t unknow this if I found out. I couldn’t overlook it. It changes how I view a person. The lack of empathy I had a similar convo with a guy friend last night and your last few sentences hit the Never Underestimate An Old Woman Who Loves Dogs And Horses And Was Born In October Shirt In addition,I will do this nail on the head. We had tentative plans again soon and the willful ignorance and lack of empathy makes me not want to be around him. WHAT?! I would literally never dream of saying that to anyone, much less my LIFE PARTNER. How is that not literally the reddest flag? I used to sleep with a guy who at one point I found out was anti-choice. I don’t know if he believed it should be illegal, but he didn’t agree with abortion and thought it was morally wrong. I wish I had stopped sleeping with him right then and there, but it was a few more months until I got my self respect up and ended things (for a bunch of other reasons).